Kids of Canser Kinfolk

So i know that there is a lot of kids out there who have "kinfolks" (parents) that have some type of canser. and i know that many of those kids could have s friend that they can talk to about there kinfolks. So thats what i wanted this topic to be all about. Discussing the new life that has started and how many thing have change. FOr example, in my situation when i found out that my mom was diagnosed with lukemia i didnt know what to do or say i just started crying. i didnt real ly know what to say. i didnt want to loose another mother. i just wanted her to be like a turtle and live to be 200 years old....but anyways so yeah what did you do when you found about your kinfolk having canser??