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the gaudy goddess
33, Female
Kansas City, United States
About Me:
I was diagnosed April of 2005 with stage IIIB breast cancer...had left mastectomy 5/15nodes positive, er/pr+ weak her2neu+, dose dense ad/cyt+taxol...40 rads all to find out afterwords that it had spread to even more lymph nodes along side of esophagus....tram recon, ooph, braca2, hysterectomy...now back in treatment with herceptin. Herceptin causing 25% less heart function over last month...on to drugs to protect heart so I can stay on herceptin since its working!
Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
Favorite Quote:
become the change you wish to see in the world.
Your Website or Blog:
thegaudygoddess.blogspot.com
What's your personal mission statement?
to enjoy every moment, live with no regrets, and don't get stressed over things that don't matter!

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Blog tag!

elle from downthestreetcreations has tagged me in this game of blog tag. find her at
http://downthestreetcreations.blogspot.com/
i love this little game! okay, the whole premise of this is to learn something new about our blog friends....so, those peeps i've tagged, time to offer up 6 things we might not know about you! and then go tag some more peeps.....

1} i have played the saxophone for over 25 years. i originally was told by my band teacher that i would do well playing the flute...but my dad's heart was set on me playing the saxophone. being daddy's little girl and all, i had someone change the "recommended" instrument on my parent's note to reflect saxophone, so he would get his wish....i never ever told anyone in my family about this little scam....and when he passed away a year after i went to national competition playing the sax, he still knew that it was the instrument for me!

2}i was a baton twirler starting at age 3 and went all the way through high school twirling! i even had fire batons at one time!

3} i used to own a motorcycle.....from age 18 to 22, it was my vehicle of choice....for those who know me...this is huge. i'm the girliest girl around...and to picture me on a motorcycle is a pretty hilarious visual!

4} when i was married {big mistake} my husband insisted that i go out and buy my own christmas presents with my own money and wrap them to take to his parents house and act "surprised" when i opened them. i did this for three years....and put an end to it.

5}i never finished fourth grade....my dad fell ill around easter, and we had to go to st.louis for his heart transplant {he was the third in the nation at that time...pretty cutting edge back then}....i tried to keep up with school work, and my mom insisted that i go with her to st.louis....so, when i fell behind, my teacher just took my grade at that point for the year...and passed be on through....i had a's so i guess it wasn't a big deal!

6}my favorite color is pink...every shade of pink.....i like them all....okay, no big surprise or secret really....i just love pink! it's been my favorite color all my life. you know how girls go through the purple phase, and the peach, and the aqua, or whatever....nope, pink is it!

so there ya go....6 "not so secret secrets!" have fun playing tag and have a fabulous night!~deborah

p.s. tag madboodesigns, belladonnabeads, and misspinproductions......YOU'RE IT!!!

SALE extended!

Saturday night specials are over on etsy, but my sale remains! i have 11 more sales needed to make my goal of 100 by the end of september! so, now is the time to check out my store, and get a great coupon to come back with!~deborah

Satuday Night Specials running in The Gaudy Goddess!

i am running a special starting now though end of september....free shipping, free monogram pendant, and $10 gift certificate to use towards a future purchase! i'm trying to reach 100 sales by end of september! so go to http://thegaudygoddess.etsy.com/ and start your holiday shopping!

Necklace Display Tutorial


okay, so my long awaited first ever tutorial! i have been looking for a way to display necklaces, especially my new asymmetrical designs. i had a home show last weekend and i became more aware than ever, just how important the right display is for selling your wares!

when talking to my marketing partner, we decided that while we did, indeed, need necklace displays, we were certain we did not want your typical store necklace displays. we really wanted something that would evoke the same vintage flair as the designs themselves. i was certain i could make some small paper mache busts with vintage news print. however, when i went to price the styrofoam i was going to use as a base for my creation, i realized that this idea was not a viable option....so, i cruised around Joanne's Arts and Crafts for awhile, and happened upon the unfinished wood products....and my new idea started to take shape!

the materials needed for this project (this is for 6 necklace displays)

6 random unfinished wood plaques (the 5 x 7 ones shown here were $1.29 at joanne's, and go up to $4.99 for the 8x10 inch ones)...my goal is to have 20 to 30 of them done by beginning of november for art shows, home shows, and fair season!

either modge podge or other collage adhesive....either glossy or matte

a sealant...i like krylon's matte sealant

a couple of paint brushes...one small, one large

papers for you decoupage.....scrapbooking, vintage newsprint, whatever strikes your fancy

or~ instead of papers, a solid paint, black or ivory would be great backgrounds for many creations!

thumbtacks....i purchased mine off of joann's dollar rack...you need 2 for each display

nails....i just used ones i had around the house....and i used BIG ones so i can pull them out easily for after show packing....you will need 2 for each display


start by taking your unfinished pieces of wood and decide what designs you want. i used the vintage newsprint. you could also just paint them....prior to painting, just give a light sanding and dusting. for newsprint or paper, measure out the front, back and side pieces. i did this by just laying my plaque down and drawing around the piece. instead of cutting with scissors, i hand tore my edges.

then, coat your wood plaque with your decoupage adhesive. you want it to stick well, so you want to be generous; however, too much will cause the paper to buckle. if you want to get really down and dirty with the project, use your fingers to smooth out the paper as you apply the adhesive....

let your first piece dry as you continue this step with the remainder of your wooden plaques.

once this step has been completed on all, and the back and fronts of pieces are dry, take alittle more time to make the edges concise. my wooden plaques are sortof a bevel edge, so i took my small paint brush and really got the newsprint into all the nooks.

next....after entirely dry...you will want to put a layer of your adhesive on the outside of the piece. this is to just ensure all edges are glued down and help make the design durable. i would let these dry for a couple of days...especially if its at all rainy or humid. then, spray each with a light coating of the sealant of your choice!

then, after your final sealant is dry, place your tacks at the top left and top right corners on the back of the piece. these tacks are going to hold your necklace in place...i just wrap the chain around them...so you want to purchase tacks that will work with your jewelry designs.


then take your nails and place them at the intended bottom of display, on the back. you want to measure to make sure they are placed pretty much even so that the display won't sit wonky....and lightly tap them into place with your hammer. i used some huge finishing nails, as they were what i had around the house. they are easy for me to pull out of the wood, so that i can easily lay displays flat in my suitcase when packing before and after shows. depending on your table you use for display {or in my case when i occasionally use the hostess's table at a home show} you may want to wrap the end of your nails with felt and a drop of glue to prevent any table scratching...just something to keep in mind! better to do it at this stage, than have to apologize for a big hairy scratch later! ;)

finally, you are ready to display your necklace on your new display stand. i think by mixing up the sizes and types of finishes, you can draw added depth to you show table layout. also, by using different colors, it allows customers to see how your designs might work with the colors they have in their wardrobe, thus hopefully increasing the number of units you sell!

also, on larger displays, you could add more tacks to the back to display a layered look of your pieces, also promoting multiple sales! Remember to be engaged with your customer, so that you can help pull the piece quickly from the display for them to play with....we know that the first step to selling is to get it into their hands!

i hope you have fun with this tutorial, and feel free to email me if you have any questions at thegaudygoddess@kc.rr.com

many blessings, deborah

posting two days in a row! are you kidding?

well, i'm trying to be a good blogger! don't they say it takes 21 days to create a habit? so, i'm officially on day 2!! i don't think i've mentioned on here that i have opened a second etsy store. it's called shopenvy and can be found at http://shopenvy.etsy.com/
it's my own little supply and destash shop. it helps keeps the kids fed when it's slow over at the gaudy goddess.
i think i'm going to offer my first blog contest....that sounds like fun....everyone likes free stuff, right? up for grabs is a sampler set of 3 lotions and 3 three.in.ones from ophelia's APOTH.e.CARY....which is my organic bodycare line in thegaudygoddess! what fun! now, what do you have to do to win it? you have to visit my etsy store, and using the names of my fragrances, write a short poem incorporating as many names of fragrances as you can.....then return here to comment.....winner will be drawn next wednesday and be contacted for thier choice of fragrances! to visit the store.....go to http://thegaudygoddess.etsy.com/
have fun, and i am looking forward to seeing what all you creative peeps come up with!

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too much to do, too little time....

i think i have somewhere in the neighborhood of 6, maybe seven blogs to post to, and nings to keep up with in addition to my shop! well, it's just going to get crazier. i will be teaching a class based on the book, the artist's way.. at my church, Unity Temple on the Plaza probably starting the 4th thursday of August...it is a twelve week long course that is based on love offerings, and i will be teaching it in a very fun, and creative, and most definately interactive way. i'm super excited abo…

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At 8:26pm on August 14th, 2008, sharmin said…
I just wanted to say hi! Its been a while since I was last on. Still not really into this lifestyle yet, but tryin. Your creations are fabulous! Wish I could afford them all!!!
At 6:36am on August 12th, 2008, Dharma said…
At 6:16pm on August 2nd, 2008, Dharma said…
At 10:18am on July 30th, 2008, Dharma said…
OMG your back !!! *trying to do happy dance). Both Grace and I have missed you so much !!! of course I still love you, that will never change my dear,dear friend!!

I hope you've been busy working your magic...not sick. What have u been up to? You had me worried.

I was doing shitastic, but now it's doing better. I just have some weird swelling from my knees down and stiff fingers. I go the doc today, hopefully he will know what's going on. It's always something *shakes fist in air*

My mala beads broke =(...they were my reminder to say my mantras. Can u reccomend something of yours to replace it? I also really want an inspirational necklace...any ideas? If u can't do the two necklaces we talked about for grace and me that's fine!!

Welcome back!! *big hugs and kiss* Gracie misses u so much too. Namaste~Dharma xo
At 8:19pm on May 29th, 2008, Dharma said…
oh where oh where did my sweet gigi go?? oh where oh where has she been??? *wipes tears from eyes* ~Dharma xo
At 2:25pm on May 19th, 2008, Dharma said…
friends

Gracie and I miss you so much!!!! I think you need to slow down and take good care of you!! We love you bunches!!! peace and light~Dharma xo
At 10:54pm on May 17th, 2008, granola said…
You changed your pic! Awesome! Rock on Gigi!
At 12:55pm on April 30th, 2008, Dharma said…
i miss u
At 9:30am on April 29th, 2008, Leenda said…
Hi Deb,herceptin is some nasty stuff.Sorry its messing with that big loving heart of yours.How much more of it do you need?
At 1:38pm on April 27th, 2008, Leenda said…
Hi Luv!! How are you? gosh I miss you! how are feeling? Did I tell you how much I love your pic?yep,love it. woman you are sooo talented,what a beautiful mind you have.come see me when you have achance.until then..MUAHHHHH!!
 
 

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